This removes the db_nodelock_t structure and changes the node_locks
array to be composed only of isc_rwlock_t pointers. The .reference
member has been moved to qpdb->references in addition to
common.references that's external to dns_db API users. The .exiting
members has been completely removed as it has no use when the reference
counting is used correctly.
(cherry picked from commit 431513d8b3)
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