When we are reading from the xfrin socket, and the transfer would be
shutdown, the shutdown function would call `xfrin_fail()` which in turns
calls `xfrin_cancelio()` that causes the read callback to be invoked
with `ISC_R_CANCELED` status code and that caused yet another
`xfrin_fail()` call.
The fix here is to ensure the `xfrin_fail()` would be run only once
properly using better synchronization on xfr->shuttingdown flag.
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