The SO_REUSEADDR, SO_REUSEPORT and SO_REUSEPORT_LB has different meaning
on different platform. In this commit, we split the function to set the
reuse of address/port and setting the load-balancing into separate
functions.
The libuv library already have multiplatform support for setting
SO_REUSEADDR and SO_REUSEPORT that allows binding to the same address
and port, but unfortunately, when used after the load-balancing socket
options have been already set, it overrides the previous setting, so we
need our own helper function to enable the SO_REUSEADDR/SO_REUSEPORT
first and then enable the load-balancing socket option.
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