While doing code review, it was found that the taskmgr->exiting is set
under taskmgr->lock, but accessed under taskmgr->excl_lock in the
isc_task_beginexclusive().
Additionally, before the change that moved running the tasks to the
netmgr, the task_ready() subrouting of isc_task_detach() would lock
mgr->lock, requiring the mgr->excl to be protected mgr->excl_lock
to prevent deadlock in the code. After !4918 has been merged, this is
no longer true, and we can remove taskmgr->excl_lock and use
taskmgr->lock in its stead.
Solve both issues by removing the taskmgr->excl_lock and exclusively use
taskmgr->lock to protect both taskmgr->excl and taskmgr->exiting which
now doesn't need to be atomic_bool, because it's always accessed from
within the locked section.