The isc_nm_pause(), isc_nm_resume() and finishing the nm_thread() from
nm_destroy() has been refactored, so all use the netievents instead of
directly touching the worker structure members. This allows us to
remove most of the locking as the .paused and .finished members are
always accessed from the matching nm_thread.
When shutting down the nm_thread(), instead of issuing uv_stop(), we
just shutdown the .async handler, so all uv_loop_t events are properly
finished first and uv_run() ends gracefully with no outstanding active
handles in the loop.
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