When TLS connection (TLSstream) connection was accepted, the children
listening socket was not attached to sock->server and thus it could have
been freed before all the accepted connections were actually closed.
In turn, this would cause us to call isc_tls_free() too soon - causing
cascade errors in pending SSL_read_ex() in the accepted connections.
Properly attach and detach the children listening socket when accepting
and closing the server connections.
(cherry picked from commit 684f3eb8e6)
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