Currently, the outgoing UDP sockets have enabled
SO_REUSEADDR (SO_REUSEPORT on BSDs) which allows multiple UDP sockets to
bind to the same address+port. There's one caveat though - only a
single (the last one) socket is going to receive all the incoming
traffic. This in turn could lead to incoming DNS message matching to
invalid dns_dispatch and getting dropped.
Disable setting the SO_REUSEADDR on the outgoing UDP sockets. This
needs to be done explicitly because `uv_udp_open()` silently enables the
option on the socket.
(cherry picked from commit eec30c33c2)
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