Previously, HAVE_SO_REUSEPORT_LB has been defined only in the private
netmgr-int.h header file, making the configuration of load balanced
sockets inoperable.
Move the missing HAVE_SO_REUSEPORT_LB define the isc/netmgr.h and add
missing isc_nm_getloadbalancesockets() implementation.
(cherry picked from commit 142c63dda8)
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