Each worker has a receive buffer with space for 20 DNS messages of up
to 2^16 bytes each, and the allocator function passed to uv_read_start()
or uv_udp_recv_start() will reserve a portion of it for use by sockets.
UDP can use recvmmsg() and so it needs that entire space, but TCP reads
one message at a time.
This commit introduces separate allocator functions for TCP and UDP
setting different buffer size limits, so that libuv will provide the
correct buffer sizes to each of them.
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