change functions using isc_taskmgr_beginexclusive() to use
isc_loopmgr_pause() instead.
also, removed an unnecessary use of exclusive mode in
named_server_tcptimeouts().
most functions that were implemented as task events because they needed
to be running in a task to use exclusive mode have now been changed
into loop callbacks instead. (the exception is catz, which is being
changed in a separate commit because it's a particularly complex change.)
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