Embedding isc_nmsocket_h2_t directly inside isc_nmsocket_t had increased
the size of isc_nmsocket_t to 1840 bytes. Making the isc_nmsocket_h2_t
to be a pointer to the structure and allocated on demand allows us to
reduce the size to 1208 bytes. While there are still some possible
reductions in the isc_nmsocket_t (embedded tlsstream, streamdns
structures), this was the far biggest drop in the memory usage.
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