On some platforms, when a synchronizing barrier is cleared, one
thread can progress while other threads are still in the process
of releasing the barrier. If a barrier is reused by the progressing
thread during this window, it can cause a deadlock. This can occur if,
for example, we stop listening immediately after we start, because the
stop and listen functions both use socket->barrier. This has been
addressed by using separate barrier objects for stop and listen.
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