Previously, the read callback would be synchronous only on success or
timeout. Add an option (similar to what other callbacks have) to decide
whether we need the asynchronous read callback on a higher level.
On a general level, we need the asynchronous callbacks to happen only
when we are invoking the callback from the public API. If the path to
the callback went through the libuv callback or netmgr callback, we are
already on asynchronous path, and there's no need to make the call to
the callback asynchronous again.
For the read callback, this means we need the asynchronous path for
failure paths inside the isc_nm_read() (which calls isc__nm_udp_read(),
isc__nm_tcp_read(), etc...) - all other invocations of the read callback
could be synchronous, because those are called from the respective libuv
or netmgr read callbacks.
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