In httpd.c, the send callback can directly call read callback without
calling isc_nm_resumeread(). When per-send timeout was added, this
could lead to use-after-free when shutting down the named.
Cleanup the way how we attach to .readhandle and .sendhandle, so there's
assurance that .readhandle will be always non-NULL when reading and
.sendhandle will be always non-NULL when sending.
Additionally, it was found that the implementation ignored the
"Connection: close" header and it worked only accidentally by closing
the connection after the first read from the TCP socket. This has been
also fixed.
(cherry picked from commit 49c804f8b7)