the lifetime expiry timer for the fetch context was removed
when we switched to using in-band netmgr timeouts. however,
it turns out some dependency loops can occur between a fetch
and the ADB the validator; these deadlocks were formerly broken
when the timer fired, and now there's no timer. we can fix these
errors individually, but in the meantime we don't want the server
to get hung at shutdown because of dangling fetches.
this commit puts back a single timer, which fires two seconds
after the fetch should have completed, and shuts it down. it also
logs a message at level INFO so we know about the problems when
they occur.
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