On FreeBSD (and perhaps other *BSD) systems, the TCP connect() call (via
uv_tcp_connect()) can fail with transient UV_EADDRINUSE error. The UDP
code already handles this by trying three times (is a charm) before
giving up. Add a code for the TCP, TCPDNS and TLSDNS layers to also try
three times before giving up by calling uv_tcp_connect() from the
callback two more time on UV_EADDRINUSE error.
Additionally, stop the timer only if we succeed or on hard error via
isc__nm_failed_connect_cb().
(cherry picked from commit b21f507c0a)
Ondřej Surý
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