dig previously set an exit code of 9 when a TCP connection failed
or when a UDP connection timed out, but when the server address is
localhost it's possible for a UDP query to fail with ISC_R_CONNREFUSED.
that code path didn't update the exit code, causing dig to exit with
status 0. we now set the exit code to 9 in this failure case.
(cherry picked from commit 4eee6460ff)
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