as every validator function is loop-synchronized, it should no longer be
necessary to use a validator lock.
calling dns_validator_send(), dns_validator_cancel() or
dns_validator_destroy() from a thread other than the one on which the
validator is running will now cause an assertion failure; this should be
fine since the validator and resolver are tightly coupled, and the fetch
contexts and validators run in the same loops.
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