On platforms without load-balancing socket all the queries would be
handle by a single thread. Currently, the support for load-balanced
sockets is present in Linux with SO_REUSEPORT and FreeBSD 12 with
SO_REUSEPORT_LB.
This commit adds workaround for such platforms that:
1. setups single shared listening socket for all listening nmthreads for
UDP, TCP and TCPDNS netmgr transports
2. Calls uv_udp_bind/uv_tcp_bind on the underlying socket just once and
for rest of the nmthreads only copy the internal libuv flags (should
be just UV_HANDLE_BOUND and optionally UV_HANDLE_IPV6).
3. start reading on UDP socket or listening on TCP socket
The load distribution among the nmthreads is uneven, but it's still
better than utilizing just one thread for processing all the incoming
queries
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