This commit adds manual read timer control mode, similarly to TCP.
This way the read timer can be controlled manually using:
* isc__nmsocket_timer_start();
* isc__nmsocket_timer_stop();
* isc__nmsocket_timer_restart().
The change is required to make it possible to implement more
sophisticated read timer control policies in DNS transports, built on
top of TLS.
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