Previously, the code would try to avoid sending any data regardless of
what it is unless:
a) The flush limit is reached;
b) There are no sends in flight.
This strategy is used to avoid too numerous send requests with little
amount of data. However, it has been proven to be too aggressive and,
in fact, harms performance in some cases (e.g., on longer (≥1h) runs
of "stress:long:rpz:doh+udp:linux:*").
Now, additionally to the listed cases, we also:
c) Flush the buffer and perform a send operation when there is an
outgoing DNS message passed to the code (which is indicated by the
presence of a send callback).
That helps improve performance for "stress:long:rpz:doh+udp:linux:*"
tests.
(cherry picked from commit c5f7968856)