Instead of calling isc_tls_initialize()/isc_tls_destroy() explicitly use
gcc/clang attributes on POSIX and DLLMain on Windows to initialize and
shutdown OpenSSL library.
This resolves the issue when isc_nm_create() / isc_nm_destroy() was
called multiple times and it would call OpenSSL library destructors from
isc_nm_destroy().
At the same time, since we now have introduced the ctor/dtor for libisc,
this commit moves the isc_mem API initialization (the list of the
contexts) and changes the isc_mem_checkdestroyed() to schedule the
checking of memory context on library unload instead of executing the
code immediately.
* Following the example set in 634bdfb16d, the tlsdns netmgr
module now uses libuv and SSL primitives directly, rather than
opening a TLS socket which opens a TCP socket, as the previous
model was difficult to debug. Closes#2335.
* Remove the netmgr tls layer (we will have to re-add it for DoH)
* Add isc_tls API to wrap the OpenSSL SSL_CTX object into libisc
library; move the OpenSSL initialization/deinitialization from dstapi
needed for OpenSSL 1.0.x to the isc_tls_{initialize,destroy}()
* Add couple of new shims needed for OpenSSL 1.0.x
* When LibreSSL is used, require at least version 2.7.0 that
has the best OpenSSL 1.1.x compatibility and auto init/deinit
* Enforce OpenSSL 1.1.x usage on Windows
(cherry picked from commit e493e04c0f)
