[v9_9] refactor max-recursion-queries

- the counters weren't set correctly when fetches timed out.
  instead we now pass down a counter object.

(cherry picked from commit 05e448935c)
(cherry picked from commit 6c049c57d9)

lib/isc/win32/libisc.dsp.in

@@ -249,6 +249,10 @@ SOURCE=..\include\isc\commandline.h
 # End Source File
 # Begin Source File
 
+SOURCE=..\include\isc\counter.h
+# End Source File
+# Begin Source File
+
 SOURCE=.\include\isc\condition.h
 # End Source File
 # Begin Source File
@@ -629,6 +633,10 @@ SOURCE=..\commandline.c
 # End Source File
 # Begin Source File
 
+SOURCE=..\counter.c
+# End Source File
+# Begin Source File
+
 SOURCE=..\error.c
 # End Source File
 # Begin Source File